Tuesday, November 07, 2006 @ 9:26 PM
Just now I read Miannie's blog and she sounds quite sad by her ' problem '. Haiz. At least I know that I am not the only one who has this kind of problem in this world. Ps. Miannie's is a friendship problem just like mine. My problem is somewhat similar to Mian's. I used to have this gurlfriend who has issues with her attitude. I mean, she is a great friend and all. Just that at times she is just unbearable. Her harsh words and stuff like that. Sometimes she can just say it and take it as if nothing happened at all. Yeah, that is her character and I can't change it no matter how much I try. When it comes to the friendship between the two of us, I constantly try to forgive her when she hurts me or sth. I normally succeed in doing so but sometimes I just can't bring myself to do so. She not only hurts me, but also strongly hurts the other people around me. And all these people are people whom are definately worth treasuring. Losing them would be a huge loss. Anyway, her character did not use to be like that. I dun noe. But she gradually changed over time to someone that I no longer regconised. Sometimes when she gets angry at me, I really dunno wad i have done wrong. Is it really me who is wrong, or is it her who can't accept wadever problem there is? Some things that she may say... it can't just be forgotten with a ' sorry '. Because it has left a nasty scar in my and the others heart. [ The others whom she has hurt b4. ] I know that I gotta accept her for the way she really is, but sometimes I wonder will I ever be able to do it? I am not sure... Mian, just one advice to you... Just like I am trying to do right now, just try to accept your friend for the way she/He really is. I/You can't help it if she/He is like that... What should I do?- anNe -